Is your partner the quiet, introverted type? Do they shy away from large crowds or being the center of attention? Then make sure that your proposal is tailored with that in mind! Proposing to an introvert will not need a big, over-the-top proposal. Those proposals may be one woman’s dream but can be overwhelming and stressful for someone with a more introverted personality. Here are some tips for putting together a romantic, personalized proposal for someone who doesn’t like to be in the spotlight. Read below for our Tips for Proposing to an Introvert:
Propose in Private
Choose a proposal location that is quiet and intimate. A space where the two of you can be alone and she won’t feel any pressure from others watching her. After the proposal you can celebrate the engagement with your friends and family any way that the two of you would like, but keep the special moment private.
Elaborate Doesn’t Mean Crowds
Want to put together an elaborate proposal, but not sure whether involving lots of people would be a good idea? It is quite possible to make a dream proposal without crowds! Set up a scavenger hunt in her apartment that leaves her searching for clues until she finds the last, and all important, question. Or arrange for a private meal at your favorite restaurant and have the place decorated in photos of the two of you together.
Should You Get A Photographer?
If your girlfriend is EXTREMELY shy, she may not like the idea of someone taking pictures of her without her knowing, or without having much notice. In that case, you might want to hold off on getting a photographer for your proposal. Having the candid photos might not be worth the stress it may cause. However, our photographers can also be discreet as they are photographing and that way you can have photo memories to cherish forever, without giving her anxiety.
Make it Personal
To make your proposal extra special without involving lots of people, make sure it is personalized to your girlfriend and relationship. Integrating her interests and hobbies can be a fun trick. If she loves reading or watching movies, think about hiding a surprise in her favorite book or dvd case. Or if the two of you love nature, you could pop the question in a beautiful secluded spot outdoors.
There you have it, the perfect Tips for Proposing to an Introvert. Still need help creating a surprise engagement proposal for your introverted partner? Want to make sure that the moment will be special and a once-in-a-lifetime without it being overwhelming or stressful? Contact us today at The Heart Bandits and let us help you put together the best proposal for your relationship. Our proposal experts have experience with proposals of all types, and we would love to help you create your dream moment! Also, our clients are always asking us how to hide their bulky engagement ring box on the day they propose. The answer is, buy a slim engagement ring box!! Ring Stash, www.ringstash.com offers a .5 inch thick ring box that will help you keep your proposal a secret until you are ready to reveal it.
Maggie Tietz