A proposal is, at heart, a party- whether there are a hundred guests, or just two. For a lot of people, it’s not going to be a good celebration unless there is a glass of bubbly or brew with which to toast the engagement. Before you decide to bring out the booze, however, here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Know the law. If you are planning to propose in a public space or park, or even on the sidewalk or patio of a local establishment, there may be laws governing when and what kind of alcohol is allowed.
- Know the rules. Even if you’re proposing at an indoor venue where you won’t be violating any laws, you need to check the rules of the establishment. Some locations may limit the amount of alcohol you bring, or forbid it altogether; if they do allow alcohol, they may require it to be purchased through their own bar or provided by their own catering staff.
- Consider the audience. Think carefully about incorporating alcohol into your proposal if there will be a children at your proposal, or if you are planning on inviting anyone who doesn’t drink.
- Keep it to the side. Don’t let the alcohol become the main act at your proposal; even if you decide to do something fancy, like break out a barrel of craft beer or a champagne fountain, don’t let it steal the spotlight from your sweetheart.
- Know your limit. It’s all well and good to drink a few toasts after you propose, and it’s fine to get pleasantly tipsy to celebrate, but the last thing you want is for the story of your engagement to include any drunken hijinks or other unsavory events.
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Beth Beeson