After you have been together for a while, it gets easy to get caught up in the day to day routine.  Marvin and I have been together for over 3 years so of course we both have to put in an effort to keep things interesting.  That is why this week’s romantic idea is to be spontaneous.  Here are some ideas on how you can be more spontaneous from your Romance Experts at The Heart Bandits:

Plan a Short Trip

On a random weekend, tell your partner to pack their bags and take them on a short getaway.  Marvin did this for me once.  We woke up and he said to get ready because we were going to go to Temecula to go wine tasting.  It was great and romantic and your partner will love it too.

Do Something Unexpected

Do something unexpected for or with your partner.  For example, normally I don’t watch Laker games with Marvin so an example of doing something unexpected for him would be for me to go get a six pack of beer and some chicken wings and surprise him with all that while I watch the game.

Make Love Somewhere New

Yes, I said it, make love somewhere new.  You have to keep sex exciting too when you are in a long term relationship so switch it up and make love somewhere besides the bedroom.  I won’t give examples, use your imagination!

If you would like more simple yet great romance ideas, then contact us today. We are romance experts and can help you bring that spark in your relationship that you’ve been looking for.