We often are asked to plan Paris theme marriage proposals and we understand why. Paris is the city of love and it is absolutely stunning so if you have a connection to Paris, why not use it as a central theme? However, when Milton told us why he wanted a Paris themed proposal, it just made our hearts melt.
The Story
Milson and Jenny had that once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to visit Paris during their relationship. However, very early on in the trip Jenny was stung by a wasp and bed-ridden the entire trip! Milson wanted to make it up to her by bringing a little Paris to New York. To add to this theme, Milson also wanted to highlight other travels they have been on together.
The Proposal Idea
We came up with the idea to place vintage postcards around the room with memories on the back from each location.
Since she loves beautiful pink flowers we had to include that in her proposal. The proposal took place in a beautiful penthouse overlooking the city of New York.
The Proposal
When Jenny walked in, she could not believe her eyes. She was taken back by all of the flowers, memories, photos of her and Milson, and the view.
But most of all, as with all of our client’s partners, she was most impressed by how much effort Milson put in to making her feel special on such a very important day. Milson proposed, she said yes! The couple celebrated with a private dinner as a newly engaged couple.
What did Milson have to say about using our services? He sent us an email right after saying, “Marvin / Michele – she said yes! The venue was gorgeous and the decor exceeded all expectations. Everyone played their role perfectly. Jenny was amazed and completely taken off-guard. I really appreciate all the help and effort.”
We are so honored to have been a part of their special day. If you want to get started planning your partner’s NYC proposal ideas, contact New York Wedding Proposal Planners The Heart Bandits today. With coordinators in many cities, over 4,000 proposals under our belt, and 7 years in business, we are the right team to help you make your proposal the best! Contact us today. Don’t make the mistake of using the bulky engagement ring box that is included with your engagement ring purchase. Check out the slim engagement ring box at www.ringstash.com so your surprise isn’t discovered before you are ready.
As the top Wedding Proposal Planners in the country, we are frequently asked to plan proposals in New York City. Here are some of the past proposals we planned featuring the Best New York Rooftop Proposal Ideas:
Travel Theme Rooftop Proposal Idea
Christian and Fernanda love to travel! Their first date and kiss was in the beautiful city of Cancun, and since then, they’ve traveled to Madrid, Paris, Italy, all across Europe, and more. To surprise Fernanda and make his epic marriage proposal one-of-a-kind, Christian wanted to include some of their favorite destinations from around the world.
With the help of The Heart Bandits, Christian rented out a gorgeous rooftop in Manhattan. On the day of his proposal, Christian guided Fernanda out of the elevator and to her surprise, a live orchestra was playing a beautiful rendition of “All of Me” to set the mood. When she looked around the room, she was awestruck as she noticed the seven-foot Eiffel Tower made out of twinkling lights and gorgeous flowers–it was the perfect representation of their trip to Paris.
As they made their way to the rooftop garden, they passed a beautiful faux Parisian grass wall adorned with romantic photos of the two of them during their travels. Hand in hand, Christian and Fernanda walked through colorful ruby-colored rose petals until they reached a gondola that was spilling over with luxurious roses to represent their trip to Italy.
To “wow” her even more, Christian guided Fernanda to a stack of vintage Louis Vuitton suitcases where she gracefully unwrapped a Mexican tote by Christian Louboutin. In the background, a string quartet played romantic music as Christian wrapped his arms around Fernanda and enjoyed the warmth of the candles lining the magical greenery of the garden.
When the moment was right, Christian directed her to the pool where she noticed a plexiglass message spelling “Will you travel the world with me forever?” As he dropped to his knee to propose, Fernanda was overcome with emotion as she said “YES!”
After the proposal, the staff served them an intimate dinner for two as Fernanda and Christian reflected on their past–and future–travels! If you want to plan a personalized proposal that will take her breath away just like Christian did for Fernanda, contact The Heart Bandits today. We can work with you to create romantic proposal ideas that represent your unique relationship. Don’t forget to order your flat engagement ring box, too! This will help you keep the proposal a surprise until it is meant to be revealed.
Proposal Planning: The Heart Bandits
Photography: Michael Justin Films
Florist: Martin Jobes Design
Artistic Rooftop Proposal Idea
Next up on our Best New York Rooftop Proposal Ideas, this one seems like it is right out of a movie. From the picturesque views of New York City to the elegantly drawn love story of Arun and Aswathi, this proposal is simply breathtaking.
When we interviewed Arun, what stood out to us was the way he told his love story with Aswathi. So with the help of Arun, we came up with the concept to tell the love story in pictures! We rented out a gorgeous rooftop overlooking Manhattan as the backdrop for their picture perfect proposalpi. We hired an artist to draw several pictures of Arun And Aswathi which told the story of the milestones in their relationship. The first was a drawing of Arun and Aswathi using Facetime as that is how they communicated when they were far apart. The next showed her 25th birthday in New York City and their first trip to Hollywood.
The following picture showed Arun meeting Aswathi’s family for the first time and last but certainly not least, the drawing of Arun proposing right on the very rooftop that they were standing on. Since purple is her favorite color, we had a florist design beautiful purple floral arrangements.
Arun proposed and Aswathi said yes! The two went on to celebrate with a romantic dinner inside the Penthouse. Thank you Arun for choosing The Heart Bandits – New York Proposal Planners.
Adam hired us to plan the perfect proposal for his girlfriend Vicky. He was very specific in what he wanted. He wanted a private rooftop with a view of the Empire State Building at 9pm on December 8th. Sounds easy, right? But once we got to work we found that nearly every rooftop in NYC was already rented out for private holiday parties. But The Heart Bandits love a good challenge. Sean from Sean Kim Photography was there to capture the beautiful proposal on film.
Sergey contacted The Heart Bandits – wedding proposal planners, to plan the perfect proposal for his beautiful girlfriend Sveta. He let us know right off the bat that Sveta was no ordinary girl and that no ordinary proposal would do. No pressure right? We immediately began brainstorming and we came up with a the perfect NYC proposal ideas. Sveta is a model and is used to being swept off to parties in whatever city she is in. So when she was visiting NYC, it wasn’t a big deal that Sergey told her they would be attending a party on a rooftop. What she could not have known is that every single person on the rooftop was an actor, placed there for her dream proposal.
Sergey and Sveta walked out on the rooftop and they were immediately greeted with a host serving champagne. They walked over to the edge of the rooftop to quietly enjoy the view of the Empire State Building, dressed in its Christmas colors. After spending some time sipping on their drinks and enjoying the music being played, everything changed. A guitarist walked right up to Sveta and began belting out her favorite song, “Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You”. You can see from the video above that Sveta was completely shocked, and then there was more. One by one, all of the party goers walked up to her and handed her a rose. There were 29 in total, because in Russia it is customary to receive an odd number of flowers for celebratory occasions. When the chorus of the song came, the whole rooftop sang the song with the guitarist and Sergey proposed. Of course, that wasn’t the end of the surprises we had in store for Sveta.
After the proposal, the actors immediately left giving Sergey and Sveta the whole rooftop and Penthouse to themselves. It is then that they enjoyed a private dinner for two and celebrated the beginning of the rest of their lives together.
Congratulations Sergey and Sveta and thank you for allowing The Heart Bandits to be a part of your special day.
If you are wondering what the Best New York Rooftop Proposal Ideas are, how to propose, or just need help executing the perfect moment, contact The Heart Bandits today. We are the premiere New York Proposal Planners and our NYC proposal ideas have been featured in New York Magazine, New York Times, Anderson Cooper Show and much more. Contact us today.
According to The Press & Journal, there are risks associated with waiting to long to pop the question. While we definitely don’t recommend pressuring anyone to propose if they are not ready, we also understand that waiting around forever is not acceptable either. Below we wanted to share the Risk of Waiting Too Long To Propose:
Break Up
In a recent survey, 10% of women said they would dump a partner for taking too long. If you have been in a relationship for a long time and you know your partner is the one, it is probably time to start thinking of taking your relationship to the next level. If you are not sure after spending a few years together, then maybe it is not meant to be a forever thing.
Cause Stress
If your partner is ready to take the next step, it can become very stressful if you are dragging your feet on proposing. Your partner could constantly start “dropping hints” or begin giving you ultimatums about when to propose. That kind of pressure is sure to cause you stress and can really put a damper on your relationship.
Feel Resentful
One lasting side effect for taking too long to propose is that your partner may begin to feel resentful. They may feel as though something must be wrong with them that is making you not want to pop the question. Or they may start feeling like you just don’t value them or take them seriously. And the scary thing about feelings of resentment is that they tend to last a really long time. So even if you propose and get married, there could be those lingering feelings or fear that you only proposed because you were pressured. This is yet another risk of waiting too long to propose.
May Say No
If you have waited a long time to propose and your partner is already feeling resentful, then your partner may say no if you do decide to propose. The stress of having to give ultimatums and constantly nagging about a proposal may have worn them down. When you finally do propose, they may end up feeling you are only doing it to quiet them and now they don’t want to say yes.
Find Someone Else
In the recent survey mentioned above, some participants admitted they had met someone else while waiting for their in vain. Granted, if your partner finds someone while they are dating you then maybe they aren’t worthy of marrying anyway. However, if your partner really wants to get married and start a family and they don’t feel you are willing to meet their needs, then it is a real risk.
May Choose To Propose
If your partner really wants to get engaged and they don’t feel like you are every going to step up – they may decide to propose themselves. This isn’t necessarily a negative thing. However, if you are a man that really wouldn’t want a woman to propose to you, this could be a nightmare for you. But if you are not proposing and your partner is ready for that step, they may feel like they have no other choice.
Delay In Starting A Family
If you are in your twenties, this probably isn’t a huge concern. But for those in their thirties or forties, the biological clock ticking is a major concern. If you wait too long to propose to your partner that is up against that clock, you could risk losing the opportunity to start a family. And for some people, that is one of the biggest reasons they want to get married. So if you are dating someone in that age bracket, you definitely want to keep this in mind when deciding if and when you are going to propose.
The most important way to mitigate all of these risks are to keep an open line of communication and to be honest with the way you feel. After being together for a while, you want to have a conversation about expectations about the future of your relationship. If your partner tells you that they want to be engaged by a certain time then you really need to listen to that and keep that in mind. If you can’t get there by then, you owe it to them to be honest about that and then let them decide if they can continue to wait or not.
If you decide that your partner is the one and you want to avoid the risk of waiting too long to propose, then we can help. Hire Wedding Proposal Planners – The Heart Bandits to help you plan the perfect proposal. We will work with you to come up with the perfect proposal ideas and then help you plan the entire thing. All you have to do is decide to ask and we will take care of the rest! Contact us today!
Is your heart set on at home marriage proposal? There are many reasons you may want to propose in your own home. You may prefer the privacy and intimacy at home. Perhaps you are on a budget and you don’t want to rent out a fancy venue. Or maybe you want to propose in a place where you already have so many memories. Whatever your reasoning, if you decide to propose at home, you’re probably wondering what you can do to really make it special. Use our helpful tips to elevate your proposal plans, and sweep your partner off of their feet. Here are some tips on How To Make A Proposal At Home Special.
Ambiance
Any space can be magical if given a facelift. Consider the space you have to work with. Transforming it into something imaginative can be simple if you pay attention to the details. Soften the lights, get rid of unnecessary distractions, remove clutter, and clean it from top to bottom. Set up candles and rose petals would be a great touch. You can get our romantic room makeover package here! If you really want to go over the top, hire our team to come over and completely transform your home into a proposal paradise.
Food & Drink
If possible, provide your partner’s favorite meal. Whether it is home-cooked or brought in from a restaurant, make sure it’s done with love and attention. Set the table or eating space up so that everything is ready to go. Buy a tablecloth if you don’t have one – and be sure to include a centerpiece of some kind. Flowers, candles, or a silver ice bucket with a bottle of wine chilling inside are all nice touches. Be sure to offer dessert after the meal to enhance the experience. This is super cute in photos too!
Music
Some traditional proposal venues don’t have sound systems or they charge a fortune and require you to use their in-house A/V team. One of the best things about having a proposal at home is that you can control the music. Create a play-list with romantic songs that your partner loves, or hire a musician to serenade the two of you while you eat.
TV
Forget the expensive projectors you would have to rent if you were proposing at a hotel or a banquet space. With Smart TV’s, you could turn your TV into a video montage of your relationship! Have a slideshow of your favorite memories going on when your partner walks in.
Bottoms Up
If you propose at a restaurant or hotel, you are going to pay really high prices for celebratory champagne. And some venues don’t allow any outside alcohol at all but they charge crazy service rates. So yet another great thing about proposing in your own home is that you can have the champagne flowing. And after you propose, a glass of champagne is a nice touch. If your partner doesn’t drink, you could do a sparkling cider instead. Plus, a toast looks great in photos.
Document
Just because you are having your proposal at home, that doesn’t mean your partner won’t want photos or video of the proposal. Hire a proposal photographer or videographer to capture the proposal moment. If you don’t have the budget for that, put up go-pro’s in the house! Or even ask a friend to come over and take photos.
Personalize
Hire The Heart Bandits to come up with proposal ideas that are unique and personalized and can be executed in your home. Once you have the idea you love, you can also hire us to come decorate and plan the entire event. If you don’t have the budget to hire a proposal planner, start brainstorming what you could do to personalize the proposal and make it really special. For example, if you met in College, can you include some college colors or pictures of you back then? If you shared your first kiss on a bridge, could you have a photo of that bridge blown up on a canvas and displayed the night of your engagement? There are so many ways to get creative and really personalize your wedding proposal.
If you want to propose at home, or anywhere else, The Heart Bandits are here to help you create the proposal of your dreams. For professional proposal planning advice, there’s no one better than the experts at The Heart Bandits. Contact us today to discuss your proposal needs.
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Newport is a city full of old-fashioned charm and beautiful natural scenery. It’s a fantastic place to propose to your partner with lots of options you wouldn’t believe. Here are some romantic proposal ideas for proposing in Newport, Rhode Island.
Architects Inn – George Champlin Mason House
Built in 1873, this gorgeous architectural wonder is a beautiful Victorian mansion which has been turned into an inn. It’s located minutes from the Newport Art Museum and only a few miles from Easton’s Beach. If your partner loves period antiques, this inn is full of history and gorgeous pieces. Suites are available for rentals – imagine surprising your partner by leading them into what they think is a hotel room only to discover that you’ve set it up just to propose? The Heart Bandits can help you set the perfect mood with music, flowers, and special touches that will melt your partner’s heart.
Newport Mansions
If you are looking for a place to propose with stunning architecture then you have to consider Newport Mansions. These magnificent mansions were built for the nation’s social and financial elite and ten of the properties have been preserved and are open to the public. This is the perfect “daycation” and would make an amazing proposal idea. Up your proposal game by taking her on a private tour before proposing at a locaiton on these stunning grounds. This is probably my favorite Newport, Rhode Island proposal ideas location.
Roger Williams Park
With 435 acres to choose from, you are sure to find the perfect place to propose at this park. Choose from stunning proposal locations like a charming bridge or in a gazebo on the water. Maybe a rose garden is more your style? Perhaps your partner an animal lover and would enjoy a proposal at the zoo. This park just really does offer an endless amount of proposal options.
Harbor Tour
Take your partner out on the water for an unforgettable proposal with an unbeatable view. You can charter a romantic private yacht, take some celebratory champagne with you, and pop the question in the fresh air. Hire The Heart Bandits to create a personalized proposal finale that will completely blow your partner’s mind.
The Cliff Walk
If hiking and nature are what you’re craving, then the Cliff Walk is for you! Overlooking all of the beautiful Victorian mansions, with views of the shore in the distance, Cliff Walk is a romantic, private place that you can pop the question overlooking Newport.
Easton’s Beach or Gooseberry Beach
We can’t write a post about proposing in the “Ocean State” without suggesting a beach proposal. Sure the beach can be crowded but if you want some a stunning view of the ocean in the background of your proposal photos, it is a great place. Try to go early in the morning to avoid crowds.
Downtown Providence
For the couple that likes the city, a proposal in downtown Providence might be perfect. Spend the day walking the streets and exploring the city. Propose on a charming bridge or in the quaint streets. Celebrate at one of the many restaurants nearby. The perfect proposal day!
Point Judith Lighthouse
This is a popular place to get married so why not use it as a proposal location. It has a gorgeous lighthouse which is SO Rhode Island. Hire our proposal photographer and tell your partner you are just there for a photoshoot and propose with the Lighthouse behind you. Or pack a picnic and set it up with the Lighthouse behind you so when you propose you have the perfect view.
Block Island
No Rhode Island proposal list would be complete without mentioning Block Island. No it isn’t in Newport but why not day trip it? An island exudes romance and this island is no different. You can make an entire proposal weekend getaway out of it. Start off by checking in to one of the charming rentals on the island. The next day go on a bike ride or excursion on the island where your partner is lead to a proposal set up. Hire The Heart Bandits to set up a proposal finale for them to find once you arrive. Then celebrate your proposal at one of the island casual restaurants.
Now that you have several Newport, Rhode Island proposal ideas, you will figure out HOW to propose? Need proposal ideas or help planning your proposal? You’ve come to the right place. The proposal experts at The Heart Bandits can help you with all of your proposal needs, from small touches to full-service planning that will take the stress out of proposing.
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The chance to be alone and surrounded by openness and beauty leads many people to propose marriage to their loved ones out in nature. There are many amazing ways to incorporate the great outdoors into your proposal. There are also some important factors you must consider when planning your nature inspired proposal, especially if you are not hiring a Proposal Planner to plan your big day. Here are just a few proposal ideas in nature, as well as some warnings to consider if you do decide planning a proposal of this style.
Beaches
Beaches are a classic proposal spot, and there is nothing wrong with that! Something about a beach at sunset, with the light reflecting off the water and the sound of the waves, is incredibly romantic. There are also plenty of ways to incorporate the environment into your special moment — write out your proposal in the sand, have a secret picnic set up, or even hire a sand sculptor to recreate a special moment in your relationship.
Mountain Hikes
Are you and your girlfriend the outdoorsy type? Is your ideal date to get as far away from civilization as possible? Then incorporating your proposal into a mountain hike complete with stunning vistas could be the perfect way to celebrate your love for one another.
Gardens
Proposing in a garden is a wonderful way to pop the question. Gardens are typically charming secluded areas with beautiful flowers. If you can find a secret garden to propose in, you wouldn’t even need props because the garden backdrop is already so perfect. This is why proposal ideas in nature is such a good idea!
Cliffside
What more romantic way to propose then on a cliff overlooking the ocean or a beautiful valley? Do some research and find the perfect cliffside proposal location. Bring your partner there and drop to your knee for an epic proposal.
Caves
This one may sound strange at first, since caves are thought of as being cold, dark, and even creepy. But in reality, they can be beautiful and peaceful spaces! If you live in a region with a number of caves, check them out and see if they could work as your own little proposal oasis!
Parks
There are plenty of ways to incorporate nature into your proposal even if you and your beau are city people through and through. Every city has it’s share of beautiful parks where one can forgot for a bit the hustle and bustle going on around them and have a picnic beneath the trees.
Things To Consider
While we do recommend hiring a Proposal Planner to plan your nature proposal idea, if you do decide to plan it on your own, we have some things for you to consider. We want you to benefit from our 10 years of experience so that your proposal is a true success.
Weather
While proposing under the amazing sky is a great idea for certain couples, there are still some things you should consider when planning a proposal out in nature. First, you need to think about weather. If extreme heat, rain, or snow is even a possibility, you need to think through what your back up plan will be.
Animals
You also want to think about animals, wildlife, and bugs. In the decade we have spent planning marriage proposals, we have seen it all. We have had to chase seagulls away from our beach setup, chase ants and squirrels away from picnics, and much more. So when you are planning your special day, you are going to want to think about these things as well.
Bad Reception
You may not think about this initially but you want to make sure that everyone involved with the proposal knows exactly what to do in advance. You don’t want anyone thinking that they can rely on texting you for instruction while you are out in nature because you could very well not having any reception.
Accessibility
If you plan on having any vendors be part of the proposal, you have to think about accessibility. For example, if you want a photographer, where will they stand so they are not seen as you walk up? Is the hike to hard for a vendor to carry a bunch of items? Think about all of those things before finalizing the proposal ideas in nature.
Hire A Proposal Planner
You may be wondering how a Proposal Planner can help you plan the perfect nature proposal idea. Even the most stunning, natural location can be personalized so that when your partner walks up to the location, they know that a lot of time and effort was spent creating a proposal meant just for them. We can help you come up with proposal ideas that are low-key and intimate or grand and over the top.
Want your proposal setting to be in the great outdoors but are unsure of how to find the best location? Need help bringing your ideas together? Contact The Heart Bandits today and let our team of proposal experts make your unique and special moment one to remember.
Craig contacted The Heart Bandits when he was trying to find the perfect marriage proposal plan for his girlfriend Samira. He wanted everything to be perfect for his romantic Key West proposal, but he was overseas at the time and he knew he wouldn’t have the time or the capability to plan it to perfection from afar. As we do with all of our clients, we interviewed him so that we could get to know details about him and his girlfriend. During that interview, we were immediately drawn to how the couple first met.
The Story
Samira grew up in Miami but decided to move to Baltimore to get her Doctorate. Baltimore is Craig’s hometown and while looking for an apartment, he happened to consider moving into Samira’s building. When he went to tour the building and apartment unit, she was on the same elevator as he and the leasing agent. Ultimately, Craig ended up moving in to the apartment and coincidentally, he moved in right next door to Samira! One day, she slipped a note under his door inviting him to a dinner party that she was having. Unfortunately, he could not make it so he slipped a note under her door letting her know. The note passing continued on, back and forth for a while. In one of those notes, they finally exchanged phone numbers and eventually met out one night with friends and as friends. And from there as they say, it was history!
The Proposal Idea
We just knew we had to create a unique marriage proposal idea that incorporated the note passing that brought them together. We presented Craig the option of having 2 doors set up on the beach. The doors would be labeled with their apartment numbers (365 on the left and 364 on the right). There would be a note hanging on the door to pay homage to their beginning form of communication. Once they walked through the doors, there would be a proposal set up at the end of the pier where Craig would ask Samira to be his wife. Craig loved the proposal idea!
The Proposal
On the day of the proposal, Samira was lead to the doors. She wasn’t quite sure what was going on. Was it just a coincidence that these doors had their old apartment numbers on them? It had to be, they were so far from Baltimore! But then Craig drew her attention to the note hanging from the door.
Samira was smitten and followed Craig’s lead through the doors. They walked down the pier hand in hand. At the end of the pier, Craig dropped to his knee amongst roses, petals and lanterns, and proposed to the love of his life. Samira said yes and then got on her cute little tippy toes to give him a hug!
Check out the stunning photos below and pay attention to all of the thoughtful details; blush tone heads of roses and rose petals in case it got too windy, oversized gold lanterns to look grand with the ocean as the backdrop, a table for two so they could sit down to enjoy Champagne after the proposal….it was truly magical.
After the proposal, the couple shared a Champagne toast to start their new life together. We are so honored to have been a part of Craig and Samira’s special day.
HOW CAN A PROPOSAL PLANNER HELP YOU PLAN YOUR KEY WEST PROPOSAL?
If you are looking for looking to plan a romantic Key West Proposal, then you could benefit from hiring a Proposal Planner. Here is how hiring The Heart Bandits can help:
We will work with you to create a custom and personalized proposal idea that can be implemented in a Key West setting.
We can make recommendations for the best beaches that do not require a permit.
We can make recommendations for more secluded beach space that would require a permit or a non-beach venue.
We have relationships with top notch vendors in Key West that we have worked with on many proposals and will do an amazing job for your proposal.
If you are not from Key West, we can be on-site to manage details and/or decorate.
We will plan your entire proposal from A-Z and all you have to do is show up.
If you are still looking for proposal ideas in Key West, and just want to do a little more researching before getting started, read our article. The Heart Bandits have been planning marriage proposals in Miami, Key West, and all over the world for over 9 years. We have helped over 4,000 clients receive a great big “YES” and we would love to work with you next.
Proposal Planning: The Heart Bandits, Photo: Jamie Lee Noguchi
Children are so precious, right? So it makes sense that you may want to include them into your marriage proposal. Here are some reasons you may wish to create proposal ideas with kids:
Why Incorporate Kids Into Your Proposal?
Your Partner Has Children
If your partner has children, including them in your proposal is a very sweet gesture. It will make your partner feel that you are accepting of them and their child or children. It will make the child feel important and special and show them that you understand that this proposal affects them too.
You Have Kids Together
If you have children together, they are likely the center of your universe. So you may want to have them be a part of such a life changing event. It will help the child or children see that you value their role in the family and that you want them to be a part of this momentous occasion.
Now that you know the reasons why you may wish to create proposal ideas with kids, you are probably wondering what are some proposal ideas that can be done involving children. Below are some ideas that you can use to start your brainstorming.
Proposal Ideas With Kids
Wear A Proposal Shirt
One very easy way to incorporate a child into your marriage proposal is by having them wear a proposal shirt. The shirt can say, “Daddy, Will You Marry Mommy?” Or if the child is not your biological child, it can say, “Mommy, Will You Marry (Insert Name)?”
Help Present the Ring
When it comes time to propose and present the ring, let them help. They could hold the side of the box or even help open the box. Just never let them hold the engagement ring, more on that below.
Use Them As An Excuse
Having a child gives you the perfect excuse to get your partner to go anywhere for the proposal. Wherever the proposal is going to be, you can say you are going there for the child. For example, it could be to drop off something for the child or take them somewhere.
Scavenger Hunt
Propose by creating a fun scavenger hunt around the city to visit locations that are memorable to you and your partner. Have your child be a part of this either by giving clues to your partner or physically being at one of the locations along the way.
Drawing
Another creative way to propose by using kids is having them draw something for the engagement. They could draw you down on one knee proposing or even a great big engagement ring. They could also draw or write out, “Will You Marry Me?”
Utilize Their Skills
Expanding on the idea above, you can utilize any skills that the child has and incorporate them into the proposal. If your child is a singer, have them sing for the proposal. Do they love to dance? Maybe play a romantic song and have them dance right before you propose. The ideas are limitless here.
Propose To Child
Maybe you don’t want them to be in the proposal but you still want them involved. So a great way to do this is by actually proposing to the child first. That lets the child know that you understand that proposing to their mother automatically makes you three a family. It also helps them feel important and is a great bonding opportunity.
Propose At Kid Activity
If it is a good fit for you and your partner, you could propose at a kiddie function. For example, if you are taking the child to the fair, you could consider proposing there. It will be a built in excuse to go somewhere and you can plan a fun proposal while you are out and about.
Help Plan
You can have the child or children help you plan your proposal at an age appropriate level. If the child is a teenager, they can probably be pretty involved in the planning. They can do things like offer their opinion on venues and flowers. For a smaller child, you may let them help you pick out which photos you should frame for the proposal decor.
Proposal Planning: The Heart Bandits, Photo: Jamie Lee Noguchi
Proposal DONT’s With Kids
If you do want to create proposal ideas with kids, there are some things you are going to want to avoid.
Don’t Let Them Hold The Ring
No child should bear the responsibility of holding on to the engagement ring. Maybe it might be ok, but what if they lose it? They are going to feel so guilty and like they ruined your day. They should not be put in the position to be responsible for something that big.
Not Responsible For Anything Super Critical
To that point, children shouldn’t be given any responsibility for anything critical to the proposal. Not only is there a good chance that the task may be too big, you don’t want to put them in a position to fail. The proposal is supposed to be a positive memory and you don’t want to look back and blame the child if something goes wrong. And you don’t want them to feel guilty for doing something wrong.
Set Them Up For Success
When incorporating children into the proposal, you need to make sure they are given tasks that would only set them up for success. It is YOUR responsibility to make sure this is a special moment for them too.
HOW CAN A PROPOSAL PLANNER HELP?
If you are looking for Proposal Ideas With Kids, we can help. Hiring Wedding Proposal Planners can help you plan the perfect proposal. Here is how hiring The Heart Bandits can help:
We will work with you to create a custom and personalized proposal idea that can involve your child or children.
We will make sure the child or children are given roles that can make both you and them shine.
We will plan your entire proposal from A-Z and all you have to do is show up.
We can be on-site the day of your event to guide your child or children for their role in the proposal.</li
So you have found the love of your life and you are ready to pop the question. That is amazing!! Now it is time to come up with the perfect marriage proposal idea. There are endless ideas on how to propose on the internet; rooftops, flash mobs, helicopter rides, and more. But there isn’t a lot of advice on planning wedding proposal ideas at home or even why it might be a good idea. So today, we want to talk about romantic proposal ideas at home.
Why Propose At Home
There are so many reasons why you might want to propose at home. Here are some top reasons for planning a proposal at home:
Intimate
A private proposal at home guarantees that the environment will be intimate. You don’t have to worry about a lot of people being around and it not feeling special enough.
Unexpected
Most people will be expecting a marriage proposal outside of the house. So when you come back to the house, they likely won’t see it coming.
Security
If you have your marriage proposal at home, you don’t have to worry about things like rain, wind, or any other factors that could effectively ruin your engagement.
Special
You more than likely have shared a lot of special memories in your home. So you will be proposing in a location that is already very meaningful to the two of you.
Potential
Unlike at a venue that you rent out, you won’t have restrictions about what you can do at home. Venues that you rent out will only rent you a certain amount of hours, not allow candles, restrict the petal color you can put on the floor, etc. But if you plan a marriage proposal idea at home, you can do whatever you would like.
Pets or Family
Yet another advantage of planning a romantic proposal idea at home is that can easily incorporate family. You could also incorporate your pets or dog into your proposal which is great because at a rented venue, you may not be able to bring pets.
Save Money
You are going to save a lot of money by proposing at home because you don’t have to rent a venue. You also don’t need a permit or event insurance.
Easy After Party
You can invite family and friends to your house after the proposal for an engagement party. That will save you a ton of money as you don’t have to rent an event space for the party and it will already be decorated for the proposal.
How To Propose At Home
Now that we have covered reasons you may want to propose at home, you are going to need to find the best proposal ideas at home! Here are some of our ideas from simple and private to unique and creative.
Private Chef
Hire a private chef to have them come over and create a romantic proposal dinner right in your own home. EXPERT TIP: Ask them to cook the meal you had on your first date to add an extra bit of romance to the moment.
Create A Memory Lane
Utilize your whole house by creating a memory lane of sorts. You can have photos, signs, and mementos from the beginning of your relationship leading all the way to present day. Propose at the end of memory lane with some grand finale.
Decorations
Completely transform your home into a proposal paradise by decorating the entire place. Hire The Heart Bandits to help you come up with a personalized and unique proposal design for the house. Check out this Houston marriage proposal we did in Ani’s home. If you decide to DIY it, fill the place with candles and rose petals for an instant fancy look.
Hire A Trio
Another way to turn your house into an ultimate proposal haven is by hiring a trio of musicians. Have them play a popular proposal song when she walks in. Or make it even more romantic by having them play your special song that is the most meaningful to your relationship.
Utilize The Yard
If you have a super cute backyard, you should definitely utilize it for the marriage proposal. You could hang fairy lights from the trees, bring out rustic lanterns, and just create a really serene and special place to pop the question.
Decorate the Walls
A great advantage to you proposing at home is being able to do whatever you want to do! You could paint your proposal right on the walls. Want something less messy? Get wall decals that spell out the proposal and leave them up for a while to reminisce on the experience.
Tips On Proposing At Home
Now that you are ready to plan your proposal idea at home, here are some expert tips you should consider.
Clean Up
This is a very special occasion so you want to make sure your house is extremely clean. No laundry laying around, take out the trash, and do the dishes.
Let Visitors Know
If you often have people show up at your house to say hi, let them know in advance that this night won’t be a good time. The last thing you want is to have your proposal interrupted by a door bell. And believe me, I know what a millennial I sound like right now, but don’t schedule any Amazon Prime deliveries that day. They are notorious for ringing the doorbell and making a lot of noise when they drop off packages.
Hire A Photographer
Just because you are proposing at home, doesn’t mean you are off the hook for capturing the proposal on camera. You are still going to want to hire a proposal photographer to capture the big and special moment.
How Can A Proposal Planner Help?
If you are looking for Proposal Ideas At Home, we can help. Hiring Wedding Proposal Planners can help you take your marriage proposal to the next level. Here is how hiring The Heart Bandits can help:
We will work with you to create custom and personalized proposal ideas that can be implemented in your home.
We have all of the vendors, venues, and connections you need to pull off the perfect proposal.
You will have one single point of contact for your whole proposal instead of having to communicate with several vendors while trying to keep things a surprise.
We can set up everything in your house while you are out so that it is all ready when you come back.
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If you’re thinking of how to include children in your proposal, there are several ways to go about it. For starters, consider their ages and personalities. These are important factors to consider when you’re deciding how to include them in the proposal. The Heart Bandits can help you consider these details and take care of the proposal ideas and planning so all you have to do is focus on your family.
To get started, take a look at these 4 Heartfelt Ways to Include Kids in Your Proposal:
Write Letters
If you’re good at expressing your emotions, consider taking the time to write heartfelt letters. Write one to her and the kids as this could be an affectionate way to incorporate the entire family into your proposal Just make sure the child is old enough to understand the true impact of your words. If the child is younger, keep the note really simple.
Jewelry
If mementos mean a lot to her child, a thoughtful piece of jewelry might be an adorable way to include them in your marriage proposal. Before or after you get down on one knee, you can also take a moment to express yourself to her child and surprise them with a delicate necklace. If the child is young, consider something more kid-friendly.
Imaginary Friend
Depending on the age of her child, you can get creative and incorporate their favorite stuffed animal or action figure. The Heart Bandits has helped plan romantic proposals where a pink unicorn “held” a sign to include her daughter in the proposal. She absolutely loved unicorns so this was a very special touch to this family. Be sure to write a proposal message with the character to help you express your thoughts to the child in a creative way.
Planning Help
If they’re old enough to keep a secret, you can include them in your marriage proposal by asking them to help you plan certain details. They may be able to help you pick out her favorite flower or restaurant. They can even help you coordinate the logistics in terms of getting her to the proposal venue without ruining the surprise. For many older kids, responsibility is one of the best ways to let them know you trust them and want them involved in your life decision. Just make sure that you set the child up for success so they can really shine.
If you’re ready to plan a family-oriented proposal, contact The Heart Bandits! We have experience coming up with creative proposal ideas that will make her swoon. Once you have the proposal idea that you love, we would get started planning the proposal and utilizing our decade of event planning experience. Get started today!
What did Milson have to say about using our services? He sent us an email right after saying, “Marvin / Michele – she said yes! The venue was gorgeous and the decor exceeded all expectations. Everyone played their role perfectly. Jenny was amazed and completely taken off-guard. I really appreciate all the help and effort.”
