If you are considering proposing to your boyfriend, you are not alone. More and more women are taking their future into their own hands and popping the question to their beloved. But while there is a ton of advice on how a man should propose to his girlfriend, how are you supposed to propose to a man? If you are looking for proposal ideas to your boyfriend, we have you covered. But first, let’s discuss why you may want to propose to him.
Reasons To Propose To Your Boyfriend
There may be several reasons for you to consider proposing to your boyfriend. Here are a few:
Tired of Waiting
One obvious reason would be that you are simply ready to get engaged and tired of waiting for him to make the move. As long as you don’t think you will look back and regret that you did the proposing and not him, then go for it. You will want to be sure that he is the kind of guy that wouldn’t get turned off by a female proposing to him, but will likely already know that at this point.
Non-Traditional Couple
If traditions bore you then try spicing things up and be the one to propose! Again, this is something you will already know about him by the time you get to the point that you may propose.
Already Have Children
If you already have children together and you know he wants to be a family, you may want to propose to him. It may be because you just want everyone to have the same name. It could even be that you know he is already overwhelmed with dad life (not that you wouldn’t be too). But if you are ready to get engaged and already have kids, then take the leap!
Not In To Gender Roles
If the idea of waiting around until your prince gives you a fairytale proposal makes your eyes role, you may be one that wants to propose yourself. Why wait?
It Is Empowering
Women can do anything. I mean, NASA just had the first ever all women spacewalk! So there is no reason we can’t do this and feel like a badass because of it!
Proposal Ideas For Him
Now that you have decided that you do want to be the one to propose, you are going to need proposal ideas for him. Just like if you were to plan a traditional proposal, you want to first know what kind of proposal he would like.
Where To Propose To Him
The first thing you will need to decide is if you are going to propose in public or in private. This decision should be based on what you both would be comfortable with. If he is an extrovert and is totally keen on you proposing to him, then an outdoor, public proposal could be a hit. But if he is shy or he is on the fence about a woman proposing, you may want to opt or something private so he is not embarrassed.
How To Propose To Him
There are so many different ways to propose. You could go the romantic route and set up candles and other sweet decor. You could also do something we call a “statement proposal” where you display the proposal in a grand way. Here some other proposal ideas to your boyfriend:
Something For Him
Try something he has always wanted to do. Skydiving is a great example. Then, find a way to incorporate your proposal into that new adventure.
Rock Climbing
A lot of guys like doing athletic activities. So consider having the proposal message displayed at the top of the rock. Propose once you get up to the top.
Sports
Speaking of athletic, many guys also love sports! You could go the obvious route and propose on a jumbotron if he would like that kind of attention. However, if you could get his favorite athlete or team to somehow be a part of the proposal, that may really impress him. Another idea to consider if you are looking for a proposal idea is to put the proposal message on the back of his teams jersey.
Hire Private Chef
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach right? True. It’s true. So a great proposal idea is to hire a private chef and surprise him with candles and a special dinner to set the proposal scene.
Flash Mob
A Flash Mob is a great way to propose to a guy that does love to be the center of attention. Just please, please, please be sure he is going to say yes because all eyes will be on you during this proposal.
Skywriting
Skywriting is a great proposal idea because it is as grand as a billboard but no one will be watching you propose.
Billboard
Again, for someone that DOES love to have all eyes on him, a billboard in Times Square could be the perfect proposal idea.
Scavenger hunt
For the adventurous guy, send him on a scavenger hunt. Have him go to places that are special to the two of you. Examples are; where you had your first date, shared your first kiss, and where you said I love you. You are at the end, waiting to propose.
Vacation
Plan a vacation somewhere gorgeous and exotic. Ask him to marry you during a quiet moment when it is just the two of you.
Something Techy
A lot of men love technology so consider a proposal that involves it. If he loves video games, propose in one! Really step it up and have Christmas lights choreographed to a proposal. There are so many ideas here.
Keep It Masculine
Whatever proposal idea you choose, keep it masculine. While there are always exceptions, most men don’t love flowers, rose petals, and a lot of ornamental decor. There are plenty of ways to keep things romantic and personalized while not being girly.
How Can A Proposal Planner Help?
Hiring Wedding Proposal Planners can help you take your marriage proposal to the next level. Here is how hiring The Heart Bandits can help:
- We have a male Proposal Planner on our team so he can help keep a guy’s perspective in mind as we create ideas.
- We help create a proposal concept for him that is romantic but still made for a man.
- We have all of the vendors, venues, and connections you need to pull off the perfect proposal.
- You will have one single point of contact for your whole proposal instead of having to communicate with several vendors while trying to keep things a surprise.
- You will have a professional team at your fingertips to help you get through the entire proposal process and think through everything. (what if it rains, what if he suspects something, should I invite friends, etc.)
Need more proposal inspiration, read this article about a woman’s proposal to her boyfriend.
Michele
